Why ask for advice or an opinion from someone only to be angry when they actually do give their honest opinion. If you don't want to hear what someone has to say, then don't ask them. It's a fairly simple solution. Why shout your beliefs or ideals from the roof top and then when someone does the same, not listen to a word they have to say. How can you preach acceptance and equality when you wont listen to someone preach their own side to their story.